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Assalamualaikum and hi readers, sekian lama hilangkan diri selepas 6 bulan lebih sy sudah selamat berumah tangga 11.1.2021 :). Alhamdulillah. Oh ya bila tengok cases setiap hari kejap naik kejap  turun dan setiap hari akan ada kematian, sama sama kita doakan semoga ahli keluarga yang baru kehilangan yang tersayang diberikan kekuatan, kesabaran dalam berdepan dengan wabak ini. 

Dan tidak lupa juga kepada frontliners yang telah struggle, berhempas pulas, tak tidur serta banyak berkorban masa bagi  menangani kes harian kami ingin mengucapkan terima kasih yang tidak terhingga di atas pengorbanan anda :'). 

Semoga Allah melindungi kita semua. Aamin !Please Stay safe and stay at home.

 

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“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.”
– Jim Morrison

 

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 Cas Positif : Betul ke makhluk halus 'tindih' kita semasa tidur?


Assalamualaikum dear readers ! Setelah beberapa bulan aff menyepikan diri dari blogger disebabkan hal2 tertentu so harini aff 'come back' dengan content2 yang berguna untuk korang. Inshaa Allah. Berkenaan tajuk entri aff harini, mostly korang mesti pernah mengalami lumpuh tidur atau "Sleep Paralysis" semasa tidur kan? Lately aff jugak tengah mengalami sindrom lumpuh tidur tetiba badan rasa berat, pergerakan jadi terbatas seolah-olah kena tindih dengan sesuatu sama ada sesuatu itu adalah Jin ataupun Makhluk Halus. 

Apa Itu ‘Lumpuh Tidur’?

‘Lumpuh tidur’ adalah apabila anggota badan seseorang tidak dapat bergerak, bercakap atau bertindak balas pada masa yang sama. Ini boleh berlaku sama ada semasa sedang tidur atau semasa terbangun dari tidur.

Ini boleh menjadi pengalaman yang menakutkan kerana orang itu sedar sepenuhnya tetapi ‘lumpuh’. Satu lagi nama untuk gangguan ini ialah Old Hag Syndrome.

Istilah ” Old Hag Syndrome ” itu sendiri berasal dari kepercayaan tahayul kerana dikatakan seorang penyihir atau hag tua duduk di dada mangsa, menjadikannya tidak dapat bergerak. 

1. BERLAKU DALAM KEADAAN SEPARA SEDAR

Sleep paralysis ini berlaku antara waktu tidur dan jaga, di mana seseorang berada dalam keadaan separa sedar. Walaupun punca hilangnya upaya untuk bergerak masih menjadi belum diketahui secara tepat, para penyelidik berpendapat bahawa berlakunya lintasan rapid eye movement (REM), iaitu fasa di mana seseorang bermimpi.

Dalam fasa REM ini, otak masih belum menerima isyarat daripada otot untuk digerakkan lalu menyebabkan ia kaku dan seolah-olah ‘lumpuh’.

Dalam fasa REM, otot tidak boleh bergerak kerana saintis mempercayai ia adalah bagi mengelakkan kita melakukan sebarang tindakan yang membahayakan diri ketika kita bermimpi.


2. SERING MELIBATKAN HALUSINASI

Mimpi ngeri ketika mata terpejam dah cukup menakutkan kita, apatah lagi jika kita mengalaminya dalam keadaan mata terbuka. Menurut Dr Kushida, keadaan seperti ini berlaku kepada 3/4 daripada mereka yang mengalami sleep paralysis.

Halusinasi biasanya akan mengiringi fenomena sleep paralysis dan seseorang akan merasakan ada yang bergerak-gerak pada kulit, terdengar atau ternampak sesuatu, atau terasa seolah-olah tubuh terapung ke udara. Ish, seramnya!


3. WALAUPUN SEKEJAP, TERASA LAMA SUNGGUH!

Mujurlah sleep paralysis ini hanya berlaku dalam tempoh masa yang sekejap saja, iaitu dalam beberapa saat atau minit.

Tapi bagi yang pernah mengalaminya, mesti tetap terasa lama, kan?

4. SESIAPA SAJA BOLEH MENGALAMINYA

Menurut kajian, sleep paralysis ini boleh berlaku pada sesiapa saja. Namun, ia selalunya muncul pada seseorang antara usia 20-an hingga 30-an. Ia juga boleh berlaku berulang kali dan lazimnya ‘diwarisi’ dalam keluarga.

5. STRES & KURANG TIDUR FAKTOR UTAMA

Walaupun boleh berlaku kepada sesiapa, namun pemerhatian mendapati bahawa seseorang yang mengalami masalah stres serta kekurangan tidur adalah lebih berisiko mengalami sleep paralysis. Begitu juga halnya dengan mereka yang tidak tetap jadual tidurnya.

Jadi kalau nak elak pengalaman yang mengerikan ini, cubalah amalkan gaya hidup sihat agar stres dapat dihindari dan dapatkan tidur yang cukup, iaitu sekitar 6-8 jam sehari.

berat badan berlebihan kanak kanak

Foto Kredit: portal.gerchikco.com

6. DIKAITKAN DENGAN BEBERAPA MASALAH TIDUR

Sleep paralysis ini merupakan salah satu simptom sleep disorder yang menyebabkan seseorang terasa sangat mengantuk di siang hari.

Selain itu, ia juga mungkin petanda seseorang mengalami sleep apnea atau periodic limb movement disorder, di mana kaki anda sering menjadi kejang atau tersentak ketika tidur.

7. ELAK TIDUR TERLENTANG

Menurut pakar, seseorang yang tidur telentang lebih cenderung mengalami sleep paralysis berbanding posisi tidur yang lain.

Maka, cubalah tidur di posisi alternatif, seperti mengiring ke sisi. Meskipun posisi tidur lainmungkin bukan yang paling ideal, namun ia dapat mengurangkan risiko berlakunya sleep paralysis.

BERTENANG, DAPATKAN BANTUAN KLINIKAL JIKA PERLU

Menurut pakar, tindakan terbaik untuk dilakukan apabila seseorang yang mengalami sleep paralysis adalah bertenang kerana ia dapat mengurangkan rasa panik atau terancam.

Jika gangguan ini sering berlaku, jangan berasa malu mendapatkan bantuan daripada doktor. Doktor akan membuat analisis terhadap cara tidur anda serta apa yang berlaku semasa anda tidur untuk mengenalpasti punca sebenarnya.

 

*Sumber rujukan: Psych2go.com, Health.com

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Assalamualaikum readers! dah lama aff tak update blog sebab busy dengan kerja. Maybe agak terlewat sikit aff nak ucapkan happy graduation day pada kawan-kawan yang dah official graduate. Seronok tengok junior-junior UniKL and Institusi lain share moments ni bersama family. Oh ya, sebut pasal family ni, aff graduate without family sebab time tu family aff ada masalah tertentu tak dapat join graduation day. At the same time tunang fly ke sarawak sebab outstation. Feeling aff sebak semasa semua graduan dah beratur untuk masuk ke main hall, semua parent berkumpul and tengok anak masing-masing and air mata terus bertakung. After settle majlis, aff video call family sambil tahan sebak. Yela, acah-acah cool la kan. hahaha =P.  Nasib baik aff memang ada kenal family kawan-kawan rapat aff so dapat peluk dorang. 

Yes! but im proud dengan diri sendiri kejayaan ni aff hadiahkan pada dorang. Tanpa doa dorang aff takkan sampai ke tahap ni. 4 tahun berperang dengan assignment, test and fyp. Fuhh Alhamdulillah officially graduated in Bachelor of Industrial Logistic (UniKL MITEC, Pasir Gudang Johor).


So aff nak share beberapa gambar Pre Convo & Convo aff :) 










P/s : Bouquet dekat tangan aff tu hadiah daripada makcik kawan aff :')








Muka sembab after nangis :D Haha

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Kringg ! kring !! kring !! jam loceng milik gadis bermata hazel itu berdering menandakan pukul 6 pagi.

“hmmm, malasnya nak bangun..” Hayla menguap sambil  menggosok mata dan terpandang baju kurung berbunga merah jambu yang tergantung di sebalik daun pintu.

“Oh ya, harini hari pertama aku intern lah. Ahhhh nervousnya..” dengan malas, Hayla bangun membersihkan diri serta menunaikan kewajipannya sebagai seorang muslim.

Kesibukan warga kota keluar mencari rezeki dan suasana di tempat tinggal baru memberikan pengalaman serta semangat baru buat Hayla Haura yang bergelar pelajar tahun akhir, jurusan Ijazah Sarjana Muda Industri Logistik di Universiti Kuala Lumpur. Gadis kelahiran Terengganu ini mengambil peluang yang ada sebagai salah satu cabaran untuk berjaya walaupun terpaksa berjauhan dengan keluarga tercinta di kampung. Hayla telah menerima tawaran praktikal di sebuah syarikat kontraktor selama enam bulan sebagai program wajib untuk lulus di semester akhir.

7.30 pagi, Hayla berdiri dengan tenang di hadapan pintu masuk Apartment Lily sambil menunggu pengangkutan awam yang lalu. Jarak antara syarikat kontraktor dengan tempat tinggal Hayla hanya mengambil masa 40 minit untuk Hayla sampai ke destinasi.

“Alamak ! awal lagi ni, baru pukul 8.10 pagi, kakak Hr tu cakap ofis bukak pukul 8.40 pagi ..” bebel Hayla sendirian..

“Apalah aku nak buat ni ek sambil tunggu ofis bukak. Oh ya ! “ sambil mengeluarkan telefon dan buka pada playlist lagu. Hayla menyanyi kecil sambil memandang jam di tangan.

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Setibanya di syarikat tersebut, Hayla di sambut mesra oleh beberapa orang staf di situ.

“Hai! Saya Yasmin, panggil je kak Yasmin. Awak tunggu kat sini kejap ye, akak nak call En Rauf untuk inform kamu dah datang lapor diri harini” terang Yasmin selaku superior kepada gadis itu.

“Hai! Saya Hani dan ni Siti.” Hayla menyambut mesra sambil memperkenalkan diri.

“Hai! Saya Hayla.” ujar Hayla sambil senyum.

Sambil menunggu dirinya dipanggil superior, Hayla memandang setiap ruang yang ada di meja penyambut tetamu dan satu susuk tubuh melewati kawasan tersebut sambil memandang Hayla dengan pandangan kosong tanpa senyum.

“Eh kereknya mamat ni! Pagi-pagi orang kena banyakkan senyum baru masuk rezeki. Ni tak! Kelat semacam je. Oh ya, maybe gaduh dengan isteri kot semalam tu yang muka kerek semacam je…”, bebel Hayla dalam hati.

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TO BE CONTINUED :)


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“Don't let past mistakes make you lose hope of achieving good. Some of those with the worst past have made a great future for themselves.” 
― Mufti Ismail Menk, Motivational Moments by Mufti Menk

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Dear Future Me,

Finally.

If you're reading this, that means the day you've been waiting and working so hard for has finally come: you're graduating from college. They're going to call your name, and you are going to walk across that stage, shake hands with important people, have your tassel flipped and receive a piece of paper that symbolizes years of all of the things you went through to get here. 

And because I know you so well, because I am you, I know that you are absolutely terrified beyond measure of the fact that you are about to take this giant leap into the world of adulthood. 

So first and foremost, congratulations for making it here. 

Second, breathe. 

Do not let the fear you feel undermine the significance of what today is in any way. Know that you have earned this. 

It took years of so much struggle to bring you to this point, and I know it was never easy getting here. You faced the highest of highs and the lowest of lows.

From the panic attacks during the all-night study sessions for that test you thought you would absolutely fail to the nights downtown with friends celebrating being young and being alive, it feels like you've been through just about everything that life can throw at you, but you were never alone. Even in the night you were drowning in the tears from your own stress, you always had someone there to help you if you needed them.

Now here you are, at the edge of the cliff about to jump off into the next phase of life that you've been preparing to face on your own.

So breathe. 

You're not a kid anymore. Well, you'll always be a kid at heart, but now society recognizes you as a person old enough and smart enough to function as an individual.

And yes, that is absolutely terrifying, but I want you to know that you'll be fine. You are completely ready for this because you've come so far. 

For every breakdown, you came back and pushed forward. For every assignment you failed, you got a better grade to make up for it. For every time a professor made you feel inferior, you proved them wrong. For every time you didn't believe you'd ever make it here, to the moments before you walk across that stage right before you...well, look at yourself now. 

All those times you thought you wouldn't make it in the past, mean nothing anymore. You are not defined by the mistakes you made; not by that STAT test you failed or that online quiz you forgot to take. For every error you made, you made up for it twice as hard.

Just breathe. 

You know that the world won't always be nice. Maybe you have a job lined up already by now, or maybe it'll take you a few more months. Know that either way, things will work out for you, because you've always fought for the things you've wanted, just like you fought to get here today.

You wouldn't be here right now reading this letter if you hadn't earned this. There wouldn't be a piece of paper up there with your name on it if you didn't deserve it. 

Don't think that every second of the last few years leading up to this very moment didn't matter. It all shaped you; it all brought you here. It's time to celebrate that now.

Please breathe. 

This is your day. This is your moment. 





You are ready for this. The world is yours to take on now, and you will come out on top. You've proved that by making it through these last few years. Deep down, under all of this fear you're facing, you know that you are capable of accomplishing incredible things.

So walk across that stage with your head held high, a smile on your face and the confidence to know that this is the first day of the rest of your life, and it's going to be beautiful, no matter where you end up or what you do.

Your friends and family believe in you. More importantly, I believe in you, and I am you. Know that you believe in yourself. Know that you have accomplished something great, and this is only the beginning. 

For the rest of your life, this day will always serve as a reminder of just how amazing you truly are.

So go out there and see the world; do the things you've always wanted to do and travel to the places you've always wanted to go. Nothing can stop you now.

Breathe.

I'll see you on the other side of the stage, where the world is waiting for us to do great things.

Happy exploring.
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Finally after 4 years in UniKL Mitec, inilah saat-saat yang ditunggu oleh kami. Alhamdulillah. 

✿15 October 2018✿
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Every heart has a pain. Only the way of expressing it is different. Fools hide it in eyes, while the brilliant hide it in their smile. 
When you’re around someone so much, for so long, they become a part of you. And when they change or go away, you don’t know who you are without them.


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